New level unlocked

With sobriety comes the realisation that all is not quite good in Shazland. Well, a certain aspect of it. And with each passing day,  it just stares me in the face.  The elephant in the room, as the saying goes.
 
Without the crutch of drink, the issue is just there,  being all issuey.I don't know what I will do about this right now.  All that follow your head and not your heart bollocks.

I miss using drink to mask my issues! It was so much easier when I could sit there with a bottle of Brandy and just feel warm and nice and peaceful and content. 

This is a new level to sobriety and I don't like it! 🖕🖕

#65 days 


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  1. Abstinent Shaz4 December 2021 at 16:09

    So much easier being starved of affection with a bottle of Brandy at my side

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  2. Sam Hayward5 December 2021 at 01:00

    Drink blocks it out for a little while but the issue is still there and doesn't go away.
    Your such a strong lady and are doing amazingly in life right now.
    The past and issues can be awful to look back on but remember you are amazing ....
    Onwards and upwards love always here if you need a chat ❤ you can do this and everyone who loves you is here to help xx

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